tr.v. fem·i·nized, fem·i·niz·ing, fem·i·niz·es
1. To give a feminine appearance or character to.
2. To cause (a male) to assume feminine characteristics.
I enjoy the gender role reversal, the treatment of men as a sissy is a good parallel to that treatment that is so prevalent in porn--from being forced, tied up, beaten and fucked against one's will. Its nice to turn the tables on a ubermasculine man, who needs to be taught that experience and taken down to what women experience and are treated like or how men usually treat them on a daily basis. The power in feminization is that is plays upon the social gender roles we play into, girls do this, boys do that. It is slowly changing and there are a lot of progressive mothers out there that let their sons be a sissy and express themselves in a healthy open manner. In the past if you were a feminine boy--you were a girl or gay. Why is the feminine seen as a sign of weakness?
The true paradox comes from the fact that you are seeing a Dominant woman for this kind of treatment, and the taboo reversal of gender roles is what makes this kind of play appealing because you are subverting the power dynamics as well as taking on the appearance and characteristics of the opposite gender. As humans we tend to seek out what we are told isn't right or what we should not do...(you are bad aren't you?)
The giving up of power and control is always powerful as a submissive, but in terms of being a "man" who is an alpha type in real life, who constantly has to keep it together, be in control, make all the important decisions--those type of restraints can get to you. Its nice to adopt the feminine physical appearance because it makes giving up control more plausible as you transform into the female archetype. This is the beautiful part of being feminized--is that surrendering of oneself via being emasculated, giving up control, and power--knowing that relief of not being the alpha in this situation. That can be a huge weight lifted off one's shoulders, one that is all encompassing and overwhelming at times. Being a sissy, serving, and worshiping as a strong Goddess tells you to, having her transform you into a girl--whether its her dressing you up in frilly pink clothes, or a French maid costume, or just randomly playing dress up with you as if you were her little doll to play with...it is all up to her.
So when are you going to let Mistress play dress up with you?